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Success Mindset


On the days when you feel heavy and weary, there are shadows under your eyes, your limbs hang heavy, the air feels soupy, as though it wants to suck something, out of you, and is, and it all just seems ..

Too much –

The answer of course is to turn away –

From all of it –

And to go within.

Don’t be swayed, or seduced, by the idea, on a day like this, that if you just follow your usual routine, just plant yourself down and ‘make it happen!’, that anything will shift.

There is a time to push through.

A time to create shift FROM momentum.

A time to press play 

And a time to pause.

In the pause –

In the stillness –

In the deep introspection –

Where you are, perhaps for the first time in a long while, HONEST with yourself –

Is where you’ll find your breakthrough, and with it, once more, your light.

Honest with yourself?


Honest about what you really want
What your heart longs for
What you NEED
What you are deficient in, feel lacking in, have been telling yourself you’re fine with waiting for, or even fine to do without, what you actually –

Just really really fucking want.

What is it dear one, coming to mind for you right now?

I hear your mind answering me already, your heart whispering, your soul opening up –

“I want love, I’m deficient in love, I want to feel and receive LOVE”

“I want recognition, I want to be SEEN, acknowledged, and noticed”

“I want to be heard! Why won’t they hear me!”

“I want fun. Laughter. Play. And to feel light!”

“I want ENERGY, and to be able to BREATHE again”

“I want freedom. I want to finally feel FREE of these chains, and that I can just be fully me!”


I know.

I know of all of it, and so much more besides.

And I want you to know, I want you to hear, I want you to FEEL, from my soul to yours –

It is safe to want what you want.

Say it with me, if you like!

“It is safe to want what I want”

“I am safe to want what I want!”

“I am safe to want and also ask for and also receive LOVE”

“I am safe to be seen, recognised, KNOWN!”

“I am safe to be heard”

“I am safe to allow myself to have fun, to laugh, and play, and be LIGHT!”

“I am safe to be free.”

“I am safe to be ME, all of me!”


You are.

I am.

WE are.

But is it enough? Is it enough, to WANT, and to claim it as safe, well, perhaps, and I suppose you could wait and see!

Here is what else I know, though, about receiving things.

You must REQUIRE it –

You must RELEASE it –

This is how you RECEIVE it!

To require –

You own that you want it. You state that you want it. You affirm that it is SAFE.

Yes, we did this.

But then –

You must ask.

And you must take whatever action your soul either desires OR requires you to, yes even when it’s uncomfortable, or scary. Perhaps especially then!


Ask whom?

Whomever it is you know you must ask 

Your own higher self.
The Universe.
Or perhaps, another soul.
Hmmm? Hmmm!

You know what you have to do … no need to pretend otherwise!

How about release? It’s confusing, isn’t it?

How do you simultaneously desire and require and LONG for a thing, whilst also releasing it?!

Well –

You just do.

No, you don’t have to ‘work on it’

There are no blocks.

It’s a choice.

And, it’s a practice.

ALL of this is a practice, every day, to state what you WANT and CHOOSE and CLAIM, and you ASK for it, and you take whatever action it is you know you must take, and after but also whilst DOING so, you simply –

Let it go.

Reminding yourself –

If you let it go and returns to you, perhaps it is yours, for that moment


A watched pot never boils


When you’re holding on so tightly, making something a desperate NEED, you are in CONTRACTION, fists curled in, body tight, this is NOT expansion, this is the direct opposite to a receiving energy, with palms stretched open, chest broad, breathing full, sternum to the sky, in SURRENDER and ALLOWANCE.


You choose it.


“Even though I want this so bad, and I KNOW I must have it, I long for it, my soul tells me it’s mine, and yes I will do WHAT it takes, no MATTER what it takes, UNTIL it takes –


And I can’t WAIT – !

At the same time –



I know.


You can do it though 



This is how you require
And then you release
And then?

You receive!

You really do.
TRULY, every time! Because even on the occasions when the thing you THOUGHT was the thing ends up not BEING the thing – it’s actually perfect, and you just didn’t in fact know every bit of your aligned future before it happened!


How easy, life can be, yes, when you allow it to?!


But! A word of warning, for my fellow impatient friends, who WANT IT ALL, WANT IT NOW, AND WHHYYYYYYYYYYY IS IT NOT WORKING YET?!

We must practice patience.

We must practice staying the course.

We must practice, our surrender, and our release, this perhaps most of all.

I know.


It is what it is!

And that’s all it is!

What’you gonna do about it, NOT be patient, NOT stay the course, NOT surrender, be Veruca Salt shouting BUT I WANT IT SO GIVE IT TO ME?

Or just give up, when at first you don’t succeed?!


I suppose that’s ONE way.

The way most people like to play life, most surely.


What else do you want me to say to you?

Do you imagine, that if you pay me tens of thousands of dollars, I could tell you a missing secret link, give you the magic bullet, tell you something SUPER next level and fancy you never heard of yet, that will just UNLOCK THE WHOLE FUCKING THING?

No can do buster.

THAT is not a thing.

I’m here to help you remember
Who you already are
And what you already know
Have always known

Perhaps on a day like today –

Feeling heavy, and weary, NEEDING something, missing something, being DEFICIENT, in love, or energy, or light, or whatever it may be, and not OWNING it.

Masking it.
Clouding it.
Shrouding it.

When the answer, always, and only, is, of course, you KNOW, to turn within.

Jesus said –

“Ask and it shall be opened unto you, knock and it shall be given”

Take Jesus out of it if you insist, but either way the PRINCIPLE OF LIFE AND RECEIVING does not say “lemme fucking guess what you want without you ever asking, stating, knocking, claiming”

And let’s not forget about faith, while we’re at it!

A CHOICE, as with all of this, and certainly paramount to the receiving and surrendering bit, in particular.

So, what now?

What should you do next?

What must you ask for, from whom, how must you claim it, choose it, allow it, REQUIRE it, release it, so that you might receive it?

And, of course, Where to from here?

Well –

I suppose that very much depends on where you want to go.


Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.